The Emergency Stage Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. The Emergency Stage (Episode 1) General information Episode number 1 Date published Tuesday, October 18, 2022 Description Episode 1 of Surviving on Wine and Cuss words! This week Charlotte and Emily discuss the immediate after-effects of reporting sexual abuse and how you can help as a supporter. Citations The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse by Ellen Bass Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
How it started - Part 1 Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. How it Started Part 1 (Episode 2) General information Episode number 2 Date published Tuesday, October 25, 2022 Description Episode 2 discusses the circumstances that brought Charlotte and Emily here. Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
How it started - Part 2 Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. How it Started Part 2 (Episode 3) General information Episode number 3 Date published Tuesday, November 1, 2022 Description Now, this is a story all about how my life got flipped, turned upside down… This week’s topic discusses Emily’s experience and point of view of growing up with an abusive father. TW: SA (Trigger Warning/Suicide) Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
The Legal Journey - Part 1 Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. The Legal Journey - Part 1 (Episode 4) General information Episode number 4 Date published Tuesday, November 8, 2022 Description This week we discuss the legal ramifications of pursuing charges against Emily’s abuser. TW: SA (Trigger Warning/Suicide) Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
The Legal Journey - Part 2 Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. The Legal Journey - Part 2 (Episode 5) General information Episode number 5 Date published Tuesday, November 15, 2022 Description This week we discuss everything that took place leading up to the trial and how we handled it. TW: SA (Trigger Warning/Suicide) Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
The Legal Journey - Part 3 Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. The Legal Journey - Part 3 (Episode 6) General information Episode number 6 Date published Wednesday, November 23, 2022 Description This week we experienced going to trial against Emily’s abuser. TW: SA (Trigger Warning/Suicide) Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
The Legal Journey - Part 4 Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. The Legal Journey - Part 4 (Episode 7) General information Episode number 7 Date published Tuesday, November 29, 2022 Description When it’s over, it’s never really over. This week we discuss the after-effects of the trial, sentencing, and moving on. Featuring Robert! TW: SA (Trigger Warning/Suicide) Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
Your Resources Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. Your Resources (Episode 8) General information Episode number 8 Date published Tuesday, December 6, 2022 Description This week we discuss resources we encountered that helped us on our journey. TW: SA (Trigger Warning/Suicide) Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Citations Clothesline Project: https://theclotheslineproject.org/index.htm The Clothesline Project (CLP) is a program started on Cape Cod, MA, in 1990 to address the issue of violence against women. It is a vehicle for women affected by violence to express their emotions by decorating a shirt. They then hang the shirt on a clothesline to be viewed by others as testimony to the problem of violence against women. With the support of many, it has since spread world-wide. See this list of videos on YouTube. View the this Google Image Search. Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) National Child Abuse Hotline: (800-422-4453) Clothesline Project: https://theclotheslineproject.org/index.htm Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
Supporting Survivors Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. Supporting Survivors (Episode 9) General information Episode number 9 Date published Tuesday, December 20, 2022 Description This week we dive into the perspective of the non-offending parent and helpful advice for supporting someone recovering from abuse. TW: SA (Trigger Warning/Suicide) Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) National Child Abuse Hotline: (800-422-4453) Clothesline Project: https://theclotheslineproject.org/index.htm Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
Warning Signs Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. Warning Signs (Episode 10) General information Episode number 10 Date published Wednesday, January 4, 2023 Description In this episode, we discuss warning signs of children experiencing sexual abuse. As always we are not experts but just survivors sharing our perspectives and experience. TW: Abuse Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) National Child Abuse Hotline: (800-422-4453) RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Clothesline Project: https://theclotheslineproject.org/index.htm Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
Does What Happened Affect My Relationship With Others? Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. My Relationship With Others (Episode 11) General information Episode number 11 Date published Wednesday, January 18, 2023 Description This week we answer a listener question and talk about how abuse can affect relationships with other people. TW: Abuse Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) National Child Abuse Hotline: (800-422-4453) RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Clothesline Project: https://theclotheslineproject.org/index.htm Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner
Losing People After Disclosure Listen or download Audio File Audio file Your browser does not support the audio element. Losing People After Disclosure (Episode 12) General information Episode number 12 Date published Tuesday, January 31, 2023 Description This week we read a listener’s story and discuss what it’s like to lose loved ones after discussing abuse. TW: Abuse Audio Podcast available wherever you get your podcasts! PO Box: 68 Sale Creek, TN 37373 Questions/Comments/Concerns: survivingonwineandcusswords@gmail.com Resources National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 998 (US only) National Child Abuse Hotline: (800-422-4453) RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Clothesline Project: https://theclotheslineproject.org/index.htm Hosts Charlotte Shipley Emily Varner